Preparing for my Soul Proprietor Community call recently I included words from Ecclesiastes (aka Simon and Garfunkel’s Turn, Turn, Turn) which says, “there is a time to refrain from embracing.”
We live in such a to-do culture that when things aren’t happening fast enough, i.e. in our time frame, you may get frustrated, annoyed and may even think you’re failing. It’s so uncomfortable, in fact, that many people fill in the ‘free’ time by shopping, over-doing, paying too much attention to someone else’s business (literally and figuratively) or fill-in-the-blank default behaviors that are counter-productive.
What if you just refrain…from embracing? What if you simply let go, allow the world to revolve without pushing it a degree or two yourself and wait and see what happens. Breathe, clean a closet. Just be.
Scary, right?
This morning’s reading in my daily meditation book includes a quote by Lin Yutang whom I had to google to find out who he was.
Besides the noble art of getting things done; there is the noble art of leaving things undone. The wisdom of life consists in the elimination of the nonessentials.
Here’s a challenge for you–Will you let go of pushing an outcome, just for today?






a month ago today i let go of my wedding ring, which i’ve worn for 19 years, in order to avoid a divorce trial. i got the setting back… an empty ring. beautiful in its emptiness! and now i am free.
Jane, you know you are one of my heroes. Your simple blogs always speak to me. I won’t go into the details, but I needed your message today. For the next week I really need to ‘allow’ and ‘release.’ All will be well.
@Julianne
Funny you should say this, ’cause YOU’re one of mine! Thanks for commenting and letting me know my post was helpful today.
@Paula
I hear your serenity. Rare and wonderful.